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Homemade wedding favors come from a centuries old
tradition of brides and grooms providing small gifts to wedding
guests. Every culture across time has treated marriage as a
wonderful event with the nuptials celebrated throughout the
community. In many cultures the bride and groom are associated
with good luck. A common thought among these cultures was, that
every thing the couple touched would be charmed. By gifting
members of the community, the couple would pass blessings to
others for the rest of the year.
Initially all wedding favors were homemade, as the concept of mass
produced items had yet to be conceived. Many brides would choose
to redistribute their good luck by preparing a small gift of
almonds beautifully wrapped in elegant fabric. The custom in the
Middle East is for the bride to provide five almonds to represent
fertility, longevity, wealth, health and happiness. Today, the
candied nut known as Jordan almonds, provides for one of the most
common and traditional wedding favors, when they are wrapped in
small bundles of delicate fabric.
The gifts a bride might create would be dependent on the culture
and materials available. For years European and American women
would crochet small bags or stiffen their work to create small
boxes that would typically hold fruit, nut or candy treats.
Crochet items are still an elegant touch for Victorian or country
themed weddings. Today, a bride is only limited to her imagination
when it comes to selecting the gifts that will show appreciation
from the blessed couple.
For many centuries wedding favors have been a part of traditional
wedding ceremonies, across a wide range of cultures. Initially
wedding favors were an extravagance at celebrations hosted by
European upper classes, who had the wealth to provide elaborate
gifts to guests. The early wedding favors began as small fancy
boxes, known by their French name of bonboniere. A bonboniere was
fashioned of crystal, porcelain or gold and often encrusted with
precious stones. The delicate boxes were meant to hold bonbons or
other confectionery delicacies, at a time when sugar was quite
expensive. Sugar was also highly valued by all, as it was believed
to have medicinal benefits.
The tradition of creating homemade weddings favors has continued
as a means for the bride to reduce expenses on the wedding budget.
Although today, many quality items can be mass produced for a
relatively low cost, brides prefer to create homemade favors as a
means of self expression. Homemade favors allow her opportunities
for unique gift giving and personalization that can't be found in
retail store.
Homemade wedding favors can be labor extensive or have a sense of
simple sophistication. Time, talent and imagination are the only
limits for the creation of wedding favors. Craft stores offer an
extensive variety of materials from which to create a memorable
item. Simple glass bud vases and candles can be adorned with paint
or glass gems. Ready-to-paint bare wood birdhouses can be adorned
to resemble wedding chapels. Something as simple as adding a photo
of the couple, to a simple picture frame makes an excellent favor
that will outlast the wedding day.
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